My older Airpower mesh Rukka with separate waterproof liner (lightly insulated with Outlast phase-change, air-inflatable for warmth) with flexible open waffle armour is very soft and flexible but heavy. I haven't been looking lately. Got a men's BMW high viz Air Shell jacket on sale at the Buffalo MOA rally. I'ts lighter weight and cooler with separate waterproof liner. Bought it larger - needed more space to layer under. I prefer to put a rain coat on top whenever possible to keep everything dry instead of letting the whole outer jacket (and pocket contents) get soaked and just relying on the inner waterproof layer to keep dry. I do like my old waterproof Aerostitch Darien zip off pants though. They usually are cool enough even in very hot weather and quite waterproof.
Two methods to choose from: Fully laminated waterproof exterior or a separate inner waterproof liner that allows outer piece to be wet. Just read all over the web. RevZilla does have good videos. WebBikeWorld has good real-person reviews.
The MOA national with vendors is only a few weeks away and lots people to watch/ask. Maybe REV’IT, Alpinstars, Triumph? Or look under every rock and be patient until you can find KLIM. Depending how old - maybe find what you want used in classifieds? Women's fit limits our choices, but sure makes a difference. Good luck and keep us posted on what you learn.
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